Be a Head Turner & Let Your Date be a Lingering Moment

“If you treat your first date like an interview, it will feel like one. Just be yourself and let your personality shine.”

True indeed! As you travel down the lane of nostalgia do you ever recall how you behaved on your first ever date? Considered to be one of the most special moments of your life, do you think you had cold feet, you fumbled and you had been stupid enough to crack up like anything? And you snagged the dream date. Well, that is ‘it is’, because you lost your track amidst nervousness and anxiety.

But don’t be disheartened as you can always learn how to present yourself in the attractive possible way than ever. You just need to learn the basic dating etiquettes which can make you elegant, confident and a smooth talker.

All You Need is a Positive Move-

Start to nurture and pamper yourself as much as you want so that the jitters inside you are completely gone. Take a hot bath, listen to soothing romantic music, get rid of your working clothes and wear that outfit in which you feel comfortable.

Regain Your Poise-

You might be having several complexes about yourself but you should always treat yourself with dignity and respect and letting all your positive traits overpower the moment. You need to work on the vocabulary that you choose. Don’t be a drab talker. The way you talk can create a massive impact on the person sitting before you, but, on the other side, don’t be a chatter box too. You should also know how to listen and express in a way so that you can relate to the person sitting in front of you.

Refrain Yourself from Getting Hammered-

Stay refrained from getting stoned or hammered as you might turn out to be an issue of laughter and an issue of embarrassment for you. If you are drinking, do it in the most elegant manner.

Be Honest About Yourself-

Honesty is a must when you are going for a date. There is no point in lying about yourself if you think that the date is going to have some future. Be honest about yourself but don’t drag your problems much so that it becomes monotonous.

The Old School Rule is No More Followed-

Well, there was an old school rule that a man should volunteer and initiate a date. But time is changing and girls are equally confident today to ask someone out, although when it comes to payment, the guys should do the needful. On the other hand, girls should also insist in paying the half or at least buy a drink to the man; this does give an impressive effect.

Well, there can be millions of tips that can be shared and followed. But the most important factor that will make your date a real success is to be yourself and to feel confident from inside. You are what you are and there is no necessity to imitate anyone or pretend someone else. Believe it or not, “It is a risk to love. What if it doesn’t work out? Ah! What if it does?”